To The Guys Who Just Weren't "It"...

Tonight I had one of the best Valentines dates I've had in A LONG time. I went out with two girlfriends for Mexican food and Corona's, and it was refreshing for once to embrace being on my own.

At dinner, we began discussing memories of valentines past, and toasted to the realization that this valentines, we were in a much better place than the previous year.

I started reflecting on all the men who've been in and out of my life throughout the years, and realized that I owe them all a big "THANK YOU" so here it goes...

Thank you to my high school sweetheart who wasn't patient enough to let me grow up, and figure things out on my own...

Thank you to "MR. GQ", I'm sure one day you'll find a girl who finds your flat brimmed hats, pin stripped suits, and blue neon lights underneath you truck sexy, not this gal!...

Thank you to the Jackass who left me alone at my first sorority semi formal, and had another girl from another sorority come pick you up, loser...

Thank you to the player who started dating a girl in my sorority, WHILE you were still dating me...double loser!

and last but not least, thank you to "K-Fed" (yes, after Brittney's Spear's ex) as you so endearingly referred to yourself. Your ego just wasn't big enough for another person to fit in your life 
(you like the cigs in the front pocket? classy)...

I owe a huge "THANK YOU" to each of you, for showing me what I want, and what I definitely do not want in a relationship.

Don't get me wrong, there have been some GREAT guys along the way, and for some reason or another it just wasn't meant to be. Those have been left of this list, but to the men above...Happy Valentines Day!

How was your valentines day? I'd love to hear some stories of your valentines from the past!

12 comments :

bailey j said...

I loveddd this. It was such a good read in a funny way and in a bad ass way and in a really nice reflective way aha. Really aweome post. You're fabulous :)

Alyx said...

Bahahahahahahahahahhahahaha

Owned.

That is all I have to say about that.

Oh, and good job for ditching the douches.

Sandra said...

You are awesome! They were in and out of your life for a reason. Great thing is you know exactly why they are out.

Alex said...

HA this is great.

Holly said...

hahaha love this!!!

Vanisha @ Vanishas Life In...Australia said...

I love this post and your reflections on relationships and how amazing is it to have a great Vday with the girls?! Sounds like heaps of fun!

Amy Lynn said...

i love this post! haha it's so true though... sometimes the loser boys teach us some good things. what we DON'T want or need.

Laura said...

I have no stories to share, but I am commenting to say I love the pictures. You look awesome in all of them. I especially love your big hat and dress with K-Fed (seriously? What. a. mess).

Alex Butts said...

I'm your newest follower and obsessed with this post! I found you bc I'm a sponsor over at Jenni's blog, too. I had an awesome Valentine's day cooking with friends here in Germany. Probably the best Valentine's yet due to the lack of popularity of the holiday here and the tons of fun we had with it

Mo (New on U) said...

Came over from Story of My Life and you've earned a new follower with this post - hilarious! Isn't it hard to believe we actually LIKED guys like this at one point?!

Glocal Girl said...

Found you thru Jenni's blog!

This was an amazing post... Props for you to referring to all those guys past. I think I would cringe out of embarrassment if I were to post about mine! Haha.. oh, college.

You go girl.

xxx

Alissa said...

This makes me wish I didn't throw out or delete photos of me and my ex's...great post!

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